Healing Prayer

A family tree can be very helpful in identifying common illnesses and sin patterns in a family and targeting those areas that may need concentrated prayer. A family tree is used to diagram family history so that you can see at a glance where problems are in each generation.

Pray before filling out the family tree. Ask the Holy Spirit for guidance and direction in remembering family relationships and stories that have passed down through the generations.

Begin at the bottom of the tree; fill in your name and your spouse’s name, and any problems you have (if divorced, insert your previous spouse’s name, too). Do the same with your children, your parents and your brothers and sisters. Continue in this way up the family tree, as far as you can remember, indicating any patterns or problem areas in your family line. Some problems come down vertically, as from grandfather to father, some horizontally, from aunt to aunt or cousin to cousin.

Some problems will be obvious; others are known only to God. Do not worry about what you do not know. Jesus will reveal what you need to know, and what He reveals He will bring into healing. Great traumas may be healed through generational healing prayer without your knowing their exact cause. However, if you find that your family’s problems are not completely resolved after a healing prayer session or Holy Communion, continue to intercede about them. In some cases, it may be necessary for generational healing prayer to be repeated several times for one family line.

Go back at least four generations—even if you do not know all the names. If possible, check with parents, grandparents and other relatives to get more details or clearer information.

Depict the family tree graphically. Click link for a sample family tree diagram. Resize for printing as needful.

Once you have finished constructing the family tree, look at possible patterns or problem areas within the family bloodlines. Below are some of the common areas of generational bondage or sin that may help jog your memory and make a more complete picture of your family line.

Remember to ask the Holy Spirit to reveal His truth. He may name something that is not listed below. It is essential to put down all areas revealed to you in order to break the patterns of generational sin.

Unusual or Violent Deaths
committed or attempted suicide
were murdered or died in tragic ways such as accidents, wars (including POWs and MIAs) or violence
had an abortion or participated in/sponsored an abortion
had repeated miscarriages
died in a mental institution, nursing home or prison, especially those who felt lonely, unloved and/or abandoned
were not given a Christian burial, including committal services or prayer, or who were unmourned
were unnaturally grieved
experienced untimely deaths (for example, a pattern of males dying at an early age)

Evidence of Occult Activity, Demonic or Oppressive Spirits
Here is a partial listing. Identify evidence of:

superstitions
involvement in the occult (for example, witchcraft, astrology, spiritualism or divination)
opening one’s self to powers of the spiritual realm, such as precognition or other psychic abilities
severe trauma, with evidence of effects passed on through the family (for example, a drowning resulting in fear of water in other members, especially descendants)
a blood covenant with Satan or involvement in satanic worship
involvement with a witch or other persons involved in the occult

Habitual Patterns of Sin
These are numerous. Begin with sexual sins:

adultery/fornication
prostitution
homosexuality, lesbianism
incest
pornography (homosexual, heterosexual or child)
sexual perversions such as bestiality
sexual promiscuity
lust
sexual addictions

Be sure to list all sexual partners as well as any soul-ties you have with another. A soul-tie is an unhealthy connection with another person. You allow the person to control you in certain areas. You begin to lose your individuality and self-confidence. You let the person make decisions for you, or you base your decisions on what you think the person wants you to do. If the person is really good at manipulation, you will think that he or she is spiritually superlative and will let him or her tell you what God is saying to you. The longer the unhealthy relationship, the stronger the soul-tie.

This is extremely important. Even if a long-term relationship was not sexual, you may be tied spiritually, emotionally or mentally. If you are enjoined to another, you must be cut free from this relationship. Remember that Jesus does not separate us from a person if we are tied to him or her in ways that are holy and within God’s plan and will. He only cuts us free from the unholy or destructive part of the relationship. This is an especially important step when you are married or planning to marry. Your marriage bed should only include you, your spouse and God.

Other habitual sins include:

violence
abuse (physical, mental or emotional)
incest
racial prejudice
anger
religious prejudice
murder
pride
greed
materialism
arrogance
hatred
unforgiveness or holding grudges

Destructive or Unhealthy Patterns of Relationships
Look for these traits in your family members:

addictions (alcoholism, nicotine, drugs, food, gambling, etc.)
divorce
abuse (emotional, mental or physical)
hostility
control
manipulation
bondage (domination)
revenge-seeking
unforgiveness
bitterness
anger
depression
any person considered an outcast, reject or black sheep

Diseases and Predisposition to Illness
Again, here is a partial list of physical maladies. You may be aware of others.

arthritis
forgetfulness
manic depressive disorders
respiratory trouble
cancer
headaches
mental retardation
skin problems
diabetes
heart trouble
mental disturbances
ulcers
depression
high blood pressure
nervous breakdowns

Historical Family Connections
This is broad-scale involvement in sin in which your family may have taken part.

involvement with events of great sin, evil or trauma (for example, massacres, plagues, slavery, conquests)
ethnic origin issues—negative traits, cultural evils, oppression, curses (e.g., European, Asian, African, Native American, etc)

Religious History
List all non-Judeo/Christian religions in the family or ancestral history (including atheism, agnosticism, etc).

In Utero Wounding
Note any of the following:

child conceived through lust or rape
illegitimacy
parent considering adoption or abandonment
ambivalence or rejection from either parent
fears/anxiety (for example, mother had difficulty carrying child to term)
attempted/failed abortion
loss of father
life-threatening illness of the mother
life-threatening illness of the baby
mother had miscarriage(s) or abortion before you were conceived

And Finally
As you meditate on all of these areas, ask the Lord where the problems that surface had their beginning. Offer them all to God for healing.

In conclusion, remember to:
Commit your family to the Lord.
Pray for protection.
Seek ministry for personal issues.

[Adapted from: Dearing, Norma. 2003. The healing touch. A guide to healing prayer. Grand Rapids, MI: Chosen Books. Pages 89-96. She acknowledges that the list of generational problems and the family tree on p. 96 are adapted from the Rev. Patricia A. Smith's From Generation to Generation: A Manual for Healing. (Jacksonville, Fla.: Jehovah Rapha Press, 1996], 141-142, 199.]